A Friend's Prayer — Class 6 English (Poorvi)
"Let me use my heart to see, to realise what friends can be, and make no judgements from afar, but love my friends the way they are."
1. About the Poem
This is the second chapter of Unit 2: Friendship in the Poorvi textbook. It is a short, deeply felt poem — a prayer in which the speaker asks for the wisdom and strength to be a better friend. Unlike the story chapters, this is personal and reflective.
Why This Poem
- Expresses what friendship MEANS, not just what friends DO
- Model for how to think about relationships
- Short, rhythmic, easy to memorise and recite
- Connects the unit's theme to personal reflection
2. The Poem (from NCERT Poorvi Textbook)
May my friendships always be The most important thing to me.
With special friends I feel I'm blessed, So let me give my very best.
I want to do much more than share The hopes and plans of friends who care; I'll try all that a friend can do To make their wishes come true.
Let me use my heart to see, To realise what friends can be, And make no judgements from afar, But love my friends the way they are.
3. What the Poem Says (Line by Line)
| Lines | Meaning |
|---|---|
| "May my friendships always be the most important thing to me" | The speaker values friendship ABOVE other things — it's a priority |
| "With special friends I feel I'm blessed, so let me give my very best" | Good friends are a gift. The speaker wants to be worthy of that gift |
| "I want to do much more than share the hopes and plans of friends who care" | Friendship is more than talking — it's about ACTION |
| "I'll try all that a friend can do to make their wishes come true" | The speaker commits to HELPING friends achieve their goals |
| "Let me use my heart to see, to realise what friends can be" | Understanding friendship requires feeling, not just thinking |
| "And make no judgements from afar, but love my friends the way they are" | True friendship means ACCEPTANCE — not judging, not trying to change people |
4. Themes
Friendship as a Priority
The poem starts by declaring that friendship should be "the most important thing." Before career, before money, before achievements — relationships matter most.
Giving, Not Just Receiving
The speaker doesn't ask "what can my friends do for me?" The entire poem is about what the speaker wants to do FOR their friends. True friendship is generous.
Acceptance
The final lines are the most important: "love my friends the way they are." Not the way you WISH they were. Not after they change. Now. As they are.
5. Important Vocabulary
- BLESSED: fortunate, lucky (like receiving a gift)
- HOPES: things one wishes for in the future
- REALISE: to understand deeply, to make real
- JUDGEMENTS: opinions about others, often critical
- FROM AFAR: from a distance (without really knowing someone)
- PRAYER: a sincere wish or request
6. Activities
Activity 1: Recitation
Memorise and recite the poem. Pay attention to the rhythm — each pair of lines rhymes (me/be, blessed/best, share/care, do/true, see/be, afar/are).
Activity 2: Personal Reflection
Which line of the poem means the most to you? Why? Write 4-5 sentences.
Activity 3: Writing
Write your own 4-line poem about friendship. It doesn't have to rhyme perfectly — just express what friendship means to you.
Activity 4: Discussion
The poem says "love my friends the way they are." What does this mean in practice? Can you love someone but still want them to improve? Discuss the difference between acceptance and encouragement.
7. Conclusion
"A Friend's Prayer" is a quiet, powerful poem at the heart of Unit 2. After the grand story of Gajaraj and Buntee, this poem turns inward. It asks: what kind of friend am I? Do I give my best? Do I accept my friends as they are?
The poem's message is simple but lifelong: friendship is not about what you GET — it's about what you GIVE. And the greatest gift you can give a friend is to love them exactly as they are.
