The Address — Marga Minco
"I had no desire to possess them. They were just things."
1. About the Story
'The Address' by Marga Minco (Dutch-Jewish writer, 1920–2023) is a POST-WAR story set after World War II. The narrator, a young Jewish woman, returns to Holland after the war. Her mother is DEAD (killed in the Holocaust). Before being taken away, her mother left their valuable possessions with a non-Jewish acquaintance, Mrs. Dorling. The narrator goes to reclaim these things — but finds that objects without the people they belonged to are EMPTY, meaningless things.
2. Characters
The Narrator (unnamed, daughter)
- Jewish woman, Holocaust survivor
- Returns to Holland to find traces of her mother
- First visit: Mrs. Dorling REFUSES to recognise her, refuses entry
- Second visit: allowed in. Sees her mother's things — and feels NOTHING
- Realises: 'home' was her MOTHER, not the objects
- Leaves — and resolves never to return
Mrs. Dorling
- Non-Jewish Dutch woman — 'an old acquaintance' of the narrator's mother
- Took in (or appropriated) the family's valuable possessions during the war
- Cold, unwelcoming: 'Have you come back? I thought nobody would.'
- Keeps the narrator's family things — as if they were hers now
- Represents: those who PROFITED from Jewish persecution
Mrs. Dorling's Daughter
- Young girl, wearing the narrator's mother's cardigan
- Doesn't know who the narrator is
- Represents: the NEXT GENERATION, unknowingly living with other people's stolen belongings
3. Plot Summary
Phase 1: The First Visit (Immediately After the War)
- The narrator goes to the address: 46 Marconi Street
- Mrs. Dorling opens the door
- DOESN'T welcome her. 'Have you come back? I thought nobody would.'
- Refuses to let her in
- The narrator leaves, shaken
- Notice: 'I thought nobody would come back' — Dorling expected the family to DIE
Phase 2: The Second Visit (Some Time Later)
- The narrator returns — this time, Dorling is NOT home
- The daughter lets her in
- The narrator sees: ALL her mother's things. The tablecloth. The plates. The spoons.
- Everything arranged WRONG — in Dorling's house, not in HOME
- The narrator sits, looking at the objects
- She feels... NOTHING
- These things no longer BELONG to anyone. Their owners are dead. The objects are EMPTY.
Phase 3: The Decision
- The narrator gets up
- She does NOT take anything
- She leaves — and resolves never to come back
- 'I had no desire to possess them. They were just things.'
- The 'address' now means NOTHING to her
4. Themes
1. The Holocaust and Its Aftermath
The story is set in the SHADOW of the Holocaust. The mother is dead. The family home is gone. The objects survive — but the PEOPLE don't. The story asks: what remains AFTER genocide?
2. Memory, Loss, and Objects
Objects carry MEMORY only when connected to the LIVING. Without the mother, HER things are just THINGS. The narrator realises: 'home' was never the objects. Home was her mother. And her mother is gone.
3. Those Who Profited from Persecution
Mrs. Dorling represents the people who took Jewish property — expecting the owners wouldn't return. Her coldness ('I thought nobody would come back') reveals her expectation and her GUILT.
4. Letting Go
The narrator's decision NOT to take the objects is an act of LIBERATION. She doesn't need her mother's things. She carries her mother in MEMORY. 'I forgot her address' — forgetting the address = freeing herself from the burden of the past.
5. Key Lines
- 'Have you come back? I thought nobody would.' — Dorling's greeting. Brutal.
- 'I found myself in a room I did not know but knew everything.' — The objects in an alien setting.
- 'I had no desire to possess them. They were just things.' — The story's climax.
- 'I forgot her address.' — The liberation.
6. Conclusion
'The Address' is about what WAR takes — and what it can't:
- War takes LIVES (the mother)
- War takes HOMES (the family's house)
- War scatters POSSESSIONS (Dorling's house)
- BUT: the narrator realises that POSSESSIONS were never what mattered
- What mattered was the MOTHER — and the mother lives in MEMORY, not in objects
- Leaving the objects behind = leaving the war behind
'The Address' — a story about visiting the objects of your dead mother, and discovering you don't need them. The address you need is not a street number. It's the memory you carry inside.
