Long Distance Relationships in College: A Survival Guide

The "Turkey Dump" is a phenomenon where high school couples break up during the first Thanksgiving (or Diwali) break. College changes people. Can your relationship survive?

1. Communication: Quality > Quantity

You don't need to be on a video call for 5 hours every night. That will stop you from making new friends. Schedule a 30-minute call every day or every alternate day. Be present during that time.

2. Trust is Everything

If you get jealous every time your partner posts a photo with a person of the opposite gender, it won't work. You are both going to meet new people. Trust them until they give you a reason not to.

3. Have an End Date

LDRs are easier when you know when you will see each other next. "I'll visit you in October." Having a countdown gives you something to look forward to.

4. Do Things Together (Virtually)

Don't just talk. Watch a movie together on Netflix Party. Play an online game. Read the same book. Shared experiences bond you more than just "How was your day?"

5. Be Honest About Growth

You will change. They will change. If you grow apart, that's okay. Don't hold onto a relationship just because of history. But if you grow together, your bond will be unbreakable.